Photo Save the Dates That Don’t Look Cheesy
Okay so the photo save the date is like the most popular option and honestly it can go either way depending on execution. You want something that feels personal without looking like a bad engagement photo shoot outtake plastered on cardstock.
The trick I always tell couples is to choose a photo that shows your actual personalities. Not just you standing stiffly in matching outfits looking at the camera. I had this couple in spring 2023 who insisted on using this super formal portrait where they looked like they were posing for a bank advertisement and I was like… are you sure? They didn’t listen and later told me guests kept asking if it was actually them because it didn’t look natural at all.
Here’s what works: candid moments where you’re laughing, doing an activity you both love, or even just a photo where you look relaxed. Action shots are great too like if you’re hiking or dancing or cooking together or whatever. The photo should make people smile when they see it, not wonder why you look so uncomfortable.
For the design part, don’t just slap the photo on a template and call it done. Add some graphic elements that tie into your wedding theme or colors. Maybe a simple border, some subtle texture, or illustrated details. I’m kinda obsessed with designs that have the photo slightly tilted or in an unexpected shape like a circle or arch instead of just a rectangle.
Illustrated Save the Dates For The Artsy Crowd
If you’re not into photos or you want something more unique, illustrated save the dates are having a moment. You can commission an artist to create a custom illustration of you two, your venue, or even just design elements that represent your relationship.
These work really well when you have a specific aesthetic in mind. Like if you’re doing a vintage wedding, get an illustrator who does that art deco style. Beach wedding? Watercolor illustrations of shells and waves. The illustration becomes the whole vibe of your save the date.
I worked with a couple who had an artist create this gorgeous line drawing of them with their dog and honestly it was so much better than any photo would’ve been because their dog does NOT sit still for pictures. The artist captured the chaos perfectly and guests loved it.

You can find illustrators on Etsy, Instagram, or sites like Minted. Prices vary wildly from like $200 to over $1000 depending on the artist and complexity. Budget accordingly because this isn’t gonna be cheap if you want quality work.
Destination Wedding Save the Dates Need Different Energy
When you’re asking people to travel, your save the date needs to do more work. It’s not just announcing a date anymore, it’s basically saying “hey start saving money and requesting time off.”
I always recommend including the location prominently on destination save the dates. Not just the city but maybe an illustration or photo of a landmark. Something that immediately communicates where people are going. You want them to see it and think “oh okay beach wedding in Mexico” not have to squint at the fine print.
Also this is where you can get creative with the format. Postcard-style save the dates are perfect for destination weddings because postcards = travel. You can design the front like a vintage travel poster or an actual postcard from that location. The back has all your details.
One thing that really annoys me is when couples send destination save the dates without a wedding website link. Like you’re asking people to book flights and hotels and you don’t give them anywhere to find information? Come on. Always include your website on destination save the dates, I don’t care how pretty your minimal design is.
Video Save the Dates Are Actually A Thing Now
Okay so this is newer and not for everyone but video save the dates sent via email or text are becoming more common. Especially after 2020 when everyone got comfortable with digital everything.
These can be really fun if you do them right. Like a quick 15-30 second video of you announcing your date, showing your venue, or just being goofy together. I’ve seen couples do movie trailer style videos, stop motion animation, even just a simple clip of them popping champagne and saying “we’re getting married.”
The key is keeping it SHORT. Nobody wants to watch a 3 minute video save the date, I promise. Get to the point, make it entertaining, include all the necessary info either in the video or in the email that accompanies it.
You can make these yourself with your phone and basic editing apps, or hire a videographer if you want something more polished. My cat actually photobombed a couple’s video save the date during a consultation call once and they thought it was hilarious and tried to incorporate it into their design somehow… anyway.
Magnet Save the Dates For The Practical People
I love magnet save the dates because they’re functional. People stick them on their fridge and actually see your date every day instead of filing away a card somewhere and forgetting about it.
You can do magnets in any design style, photo, illustration, minimalist, whatever. The format is what makes them special. Standard postcard size works well, or you can do custom shapes though those cost more obviously.
One tip: make sure your magnet is actually strong enough to stay on a fridge. I’ve seen cheap ones that just slide down immediately and that defeats the whole purpose. Order samples before you commit to 100+ magnets that don’t work properly.
Also magnets are great for destination weddings because they give people something physical to look at while they’re planning their travel. Every time they go to the fridge they’re reminded that oh yeah we need to book those flights.
Minimalist Designs When You Want Something Clean
Not everyone wants a photo or lots of design elements and that’s totally fine. Minimalist save the dates can be really elegant when done well.

Think simple typography, lots of white space, maybe one accent color. The focus is entirely on the information presented in a beautiful way. These work especially well for modern weddings or couples who have a more understated style.
The trick with minimalist design is that the details matter even more. Your font choice, the spacing, the paper quality, all of that becomes more noticeable when there’s less going on. So you gotta invest in good design and good printing or it just looks cheap and boring instead of intentionally minimal.
I worked with a couple who did black text on cream cardstock with a single thin gold line as an accent and it was stunning in its simplicity. But they spent time getting the typography perfect and used really high quality paper stock. That’s what made it work.
Theme-Based Save the Dates That Set The Tone
If you have a strong wedding theme, your save the date can introduce it. Like if you’re doing a vintage circus wedding or a garden party or a black tie formal event, you can design your save the date to match.
This helps guests understand what kind of wedding they’re coming to. They see a save the date with art deco elements and formal typography, they’re probably not gonna show up in flip flops, you know?
You can incorporate theme elements through colors, graphics, fonts, or even the format itself. Doing a rustic barn wedding? Maybe your save the date looks like it’s printed on wood grain paper with burlap accents. Formal ballroom wedding? Classic fonts, elegant borders, maybe some gold foil.
Just don’t go SO themed that it becomes costume-y or hard to read. I’ve seen save the dates where the design was so elaborate that guests couldn’t figure out what the actual date was or… wait I’m getting sidetracked.
Interactive Save the Dates For The Extra Couples
Some couples want their save the date to be an experience and honestly if you have the budget and the inclination, go for it. Interactive save the dates can be really memorable.
Scratch-off cards where guests scratch to reveal the date are popular. Puzzle pieces that fit together. Save the dates that unfold into a poster or map. I’ve even seen ones that came with a small packet of seeds to plant (for a garden wedding) with the date printed on the seed packet.
These cost more in both money and time because they’re more complicated to produce and often can’t be mailed as easily. You might need special envelopes or extra postage. But they definitely make an impact.
One couple I worked with did a save the date that was styled like a concert ticket to their wedding and it was perfect for them because they met at a music festival. Guests could tear off a perforated section to keep the “ticket stub” as a keepsake. Stuff like that is fun when it connects to your story.
Digital Save the Dates Are Valid Now
Okay so summer 2021 was when I really saw digital save the dates become normalized and not just a budget option. They’re eco-friendly, immediate, and you can do animated designs that wouldn’t be possible with paper.
Sites like Paperless Post, Greenvelope, and Joy have gorgeous templates you can customize. Or you can hire a designer to create something custom that you send via email. The key is making sure it doesn’t look like a generic evite from 2005.
Put effort into the design just like you would with paper. Use your colors, your fonts, your photos or graphics. Make it feel personal and special even though it’s digital.
One advantage of digital is that you can include clickable links directly to your wedding website, hotel blocks, registry, whatever. You can also track who’s opened it which helps you know who might need a reminder.
Some people still prefer sending paper save the dates to older relatives or VIP guests and doing digital for everyone else. That’s a totally reasonable compromise if you’re worried about grandma not checking her email.
Timing And Information To Actually Include
Regardless of what design style you choose, you need to get the basics right. Send save the dates 6-8 months before your wedding, or 8-12 months for destination weddings. Earlier is fine, later gets risky.
Include: your names (obviously), the wedding date, the city and state, and that a formal invitation will follow. That’s it. That’s all you need.
Optional additions: your wedding website URL (highly recommend), the specific venue if it’s booked, a note about room blocks for destination weddings, or travel information if relevant.
Don’t include: registry information (tacky on save the dates), too many details about the schedule (save that for the invitation), or anything that might change. If you’re not 100% sure about something, leave it off.
Paper And Printing Quality Actually Matters
This is where people try to cut corners and then regret it. Your save the date design can be gorgeous but if you print it on flimsy paper with a home printer, it’s gonna look cheap.
Invest in decent cardstock at minimum. Standard is 110-130 lb cardstock. If you want something really luxe, go heavier or look into textured papers like linen or cotton.
For printing, companies like Minted, Artifact Uprising, and Zazzle offer good quality at various price points. If you have a local print shop, get quotes there too because sometimes they’re competitive and you can see samples in person.
Special finishes like foil stamping, letterpress, or embossing add cost but can make your save the dates really stand out. Just make sure the finish aligns with your overall design, not just added because it looks fancy.
If you’re doing a photo save the date, the print quality is even more important because bad printing will make your photo look terrible. Make sure whoever’s printing can handle photo reproduction well.
Addressing And Mailing Logistics Nobody Thinks About
Once you have your beautiful save the dates, you gotta actually get them to people. Addressing can be done by hand if you have nice handwriting, with printed labels, or with envelope printing directly on the envelopes.
Handwriting looks most personal but takes forever. Printed labels are practical but can look sorta cheap depending on the label quality. Direct envelope printing is my favorite middle ground, looks clean and professional.
Don’t forget to weigh your save the dates at the post office before you buy stamps. If they’re thick or heavy or an unusual size, you might need extra postage. Nothing worse than having save the dates returned because of insufficient postage.
Also consider using commemorative stamps instead of boring flag stamps. There are love stamps, flower stamps, all kinds of options that add a little extra something to your envelope. Small detail but it matters when someone’s looking at a stack of mail.

