Formal Wedding Invitations Okay so formal wedding invitations are probably what you’re gonna use if you’re having a traditional church wedding or like a black-tie event at a fancy venue. I had this client back in spring 2023 who absolutely insisted on the most formal wording possible and then got mad when her younger cousins […]
Okay So Ceremony Structure Basics Look, the biggest thing people get wrong is thinking every ceremony has to follow the exact same formula. Like there’s this one “right” way to do things and honestly that drives me crazy because I’ve planned over 300 weddings at this point and literally no two have been identical. You’re […]
Okay So You Need to Write a Bride Speech Right so bride speeches are becoming way more common and honestly it’s about time because why should the groom get all the talking time at the reception? I’ve been planning weddings for almost two decades now and I gotta say, the shift toward brides speaking has […]
Okay So Thank You Speeches Are Actually Not That Scary Right so you’re freaking out about your thank you speech and I totally get it because honestly like 60% of the couples I work with put this off until the literal week before the wedding. Which drives me kinda nuts because it’s actually one of […]
The Basic Structure That Actually Works Okay so best man speeches terrify people but honestly they follow like three basic patterns and once you see them you can’t unsee them. I had this groom in spring 2023 who was SO stressed about his best man potentially bombing the speech and kept asking me if I […]
okay so best man toasts aren’t as scary as everyone makes them out to be Look, I’ve been to literally hundreds of weddings and the best man toast is either gonna be the moment everyone remembers fondly or the moment that makes people cringe into their champagne glasses. There’s really not much middle ground here […]
Okay So Writing Vows For Her Right so you’re writing vows and honestly this is where I see brides absolutely freeze up. Like you’d think picking the dress would be the hard part but nope it’s these 2-3 minutes of words that make everyone panic. I had this bride in spring 2023 who literally called […]
Okay so Christian wedding invitation wording Right so you need help with Christian wedding invitation wording and honestly this is something I deal with constantly. Like literally had a bride last Tuesday who was stressed about whether to include a Bible verse or not and I’m gonna walk you through all the options because there’s […]
Okay So You Need Vow Samples Right so vow writing is one of those things that sounds super romantic until you’re actually staring at a blank page at 11pm wondering why you can’t just say “I love you” fifty times and call it done. I’ve been helping couples with their wedding vows since like 2015 […]
Okay So Groom Speeches Are Actually Not That Scary Look, I’ve been planning weddings for almost two decades now and I gotta say the groom’s speech is one of those things that guys stress about way more than they need to. Like last spring 2023 I had this groom literally rewrite his speech fourteen times […]