The Basic Structure That Actually Works Okay so best man speeches terrify people but honestly they follow like three basic patterns and once you see them you can’t unsee them. I had this groom in spring 2023 who was SO stressed about his best man potentially bombing the speech and kept asking me if I […]
okay so best man toasts aren’t as scary as everyone makes them out to be Look, I’ve been to literally hundreds of weddings and the best man toast is either gonna be the moment everyone remembers fondly or the moment that makes people cringe into their champagne glasses. There’s really not much middle ground here […]
Okay So Writing Vows For Her Right so you’re writing vows and honestly this is where I see brides absolutely freeze up. Like you’d think picking the dress would be the hard part but nope it’s these 2-3 minutes of words that make everyone panic. I had this bride in spring 2023 who literally called […]
Okay so Christian wedding invitation wording Right so you need help with Christian wedding invitation wording and honestly this is something I deal with constantly. Like literally had a bride last Tuesday who was stressed about whether to include a Bible verse or not and I’m gonna walk you through all the options because there’s […]
Okay So You Need Vow Samples Right so vow writing is one of those things that sounds super romantic until you’re actually staring at a blank page at 11pm wondering why you can’t just say “I love you” fifty times and call it done. I’ve been helping couples with their wedding vows since like 2015 […]
Okay So Groom Speeches Are Actually Not That Scary Look, I’ve been planning weddings for almost two decades now and I gotta say the groom’s speech is one of those things that guys stress about way more than they need to. Like last spring 2023 I had this groom literally rewrite his speech fourteen times […]
Okay so you need to design wedding invitations and honestly it’s not as scary as people make it seem The biggest mistake I see is people ordering invitations like six weeks before their wedding and then having a complete meltdown when they realize printing takes time. I had this happen with a bride in spring […]
Mother of the Bride Speeches That Actually Work Okay so you’re giving a mother of the bride speech and you’re probably freaking out a little bit because honestly these can go so wrong if you don’t know what you’re doing. I’ve watched literally hundreds of these speeches at weddings I’ve planned and some of them […]
Okay So MOH Speeches Are Actually Not That Scary Look, I’ve watched probably like 200 maid of honor speeches at this point in my career and honestly the ones that bomb are never the ones you’d expect. It’s not about being the most eloquent speaker or having this perfect poetic moment—it’s about sounding like yourself […]
So You Need Hindu Wedding Cards Okay so Hindu wedding invitations are honestly a whole different world compared to your standard Western cards and I learned this the hard way back in spring 2023 when I had a client whose mom literally cried because we almost ordered cards without Ganesh on them. Like actual tears. […]