Getting Your Seating Chart Done Without Losing Your Mind Okay so the seating chart is literally the thing that makes most couples want to elope halfway through planning. I had this bride in spring 2023 who called me at like 10pm crying because her mom and her fiancé’s stepmom couldn’t be within fifty feet of […]
Wedding Checklist: The Stuff You Actually Need vs The Stuff People Tell You You Need Okay so first thing—there’s like a million wedding checklists out there and they’re all kinda overwhelming and honestly half of them include stuff you absolutely do NOT need unless you’re royalty or something. I had this bride in spring 2023 […]
Okay so wedding decorations without draining your bank account Look, I’m gonna be straight with you because I just finished planning a wedding last month where the couple had $800 for ALL their decorations and honestly it turned out better than some $5k decor budgets I’ve worked with. The trick is knowing where to spend […]
Ok So You’re Getting Married and Have No Idea Where to Start First thing you gotta do is sit down with your partner and figure out what kind of wedding you actually want, not what Pinterest is telling you that you want. I had this couple back in spring 2023 who came to me with […]
12+ Months Before: Getting Your Life Together So you just got engaged and everyone’s asking about dates and venues and you’re like “we literally got engaged yesterday” but here’s the thing – if you want certain venues or photographers, you gotta start NOW. I had this couple in spring 2023 who waited six months to […]
Okay So First Things First – Timeline Matters More Than You Think The biggest mistake I see couples make is not having a realistic timeline and honestly it drives me absolutely crazy because then everyone’s stressed and vendors are booked and suddenly you’re crying over napkin colors at 2am. Start with your wedding date and […]
Okay So Table Plans Are Basically The Worst Part Of Wedding Planning Listen, I’ve done over 300 weddings at this point and the seating chart is always—ALWAYS—the thing that makes brides cry at 2am. Not the flowers, not the dress alterations, but figuring out where to put Aunt Linda who hasn’t spoken to Uncle Mark […]
Okay So Here’s The Deal With Save The Dates You need to send save the dates like 6-8 months before your wedding. That’s the standard timeline everyone tells you, but honestly? I had this couple in spring 2023 who sent theirs out 10 months early because half their guests were traveling from overseas and it […]
12+ Months Before So the first thing you gotta do is actually sit down and have that money talk. I know, nobody wants to do this part, but like… I had this couple in spring 2023 who skipped this step and then three months in they realized they’d been planning a $60K wedding when they […]
Start With Your Venue Layout Because Everything Else Is Pointless Without It Okay so the first thing you gotta do is get the actual floor plan from your venue. I mean the REAL one, not just some vague “we have space for 150 people” promise. In spring 2023 I had this couple who started their […]